This time last year, I was nine hours into labor, with 51 more ahead of me until my dear son Theo was born. In celebration of the fact that the birth experience is fading as the Theo experience is exploding with light, I share with you this poem written for me by my dear friend Joseph Gallo.
La Via Lactea
For Sage
When we met, they were tumbling inside you
in a local cluster and I could hear them behind
voices that buffeted the brick walls of the Bold-Sky
Cafe, the clink of glass and plate, our unread poems
sheaved neatly in folders like literary flatware.
They were your star-eggs—born to the cosmos
circling in every woman, children clinging to
all that is possible in waiting to become, novan
threads tethered by a theory of mother, suns
longing to be daughtered by gravity and love.
As I foundered in the wake of a lost woman,
you were the bright echo of her possibility.
You taught me what it was to lose with grace,
to continue through a darkness bearing only
what luminance we are willing to let freely.
You did not know this for I did not tell you.
I saw the comet-tailed boy inching within you
among a scatter of worlds yet to be, moving
across the vast and brief coil that is your time
to bring such perfect mass and light into being.
And so he came up and through you, this
expression of what must yet remain un-
knowable, that dares to sit up and speak
itself, to cherish and behold all that conspired
to make this so—father, child, matris lacteus.
Perhaps it is the divine business of children to
teach us that parenthood is a sacred accord, that
from our own blood pour the songs that summon
us home, reminding us that we shall yet return to
that place in the sky that holds the sweetest milk.
Joseph Gallo
July 29, 2009
Samples of Joseph's work may be found at:
Drachenthrax & Mystic-Lit




